Finding a man who will be sensitive to your situation is a good idea, but badgering a man who is preoccupied with an obsolete adolescent fear probably won’t result in losing your virginity in a mutually healthy manner.
"We are literally praying for our website and anybody who visits us and joins us."When it comes to ensuring that those who register are being honest, the couple has a system in place.Colin said she understands people's concerns about online dating "since there is not a 100 percent safe online venue." But she said her team makes sure to personally conduct basic verification for every applicant."When we first implemented [a screening system,] we lost about 95 percent of our members," she stated.A sister website, is an alternative for those who were sexually active once but chose to abstain later."Our virgin members do not mind building friendships/relationships with other virgins or non-virgins as long as they are valued for their virginity (which we view as a gift from God) and for who they are as opposed to establishing friendships or relationships with someone based on sex.That is why most of them feel at home at our website," said Colin. Are you a woman in your 20s or 30s who hasn’t had sex yet?
If you answered “yes,” then you probably feel stuck in a difficult situation.
The website is a costly enterprise, she noted, and there have been many times when she and her husband, Jose Colin, almost gave up.
But, she said, "something tells us to keep on standing firm.""We take our website very seriously to the point that we consider it a ministry and we are taking the greatest virgin person in history, namely Jesus, as our role model," she highlighted.
At first it might sound like these are the perfect guys to lose your virginity to when you’re in your 20s or 30s, but before you seek out a serial “de-virginator,” please keep in mind a word of caution…
Men who are looking to have sex with older virgins are more concerned with collecting trophies than actually having sex with you.
Teenage boys and girls almost always develop deep attachments to the first person they have sex with.